Valentine’s for Dudes, Ziba Graham’s Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling.”

 By Laura Medina

To unite the stereotypical gender divide, Ziba Graham puts his spin in the “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.”

His marriage manual, “Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling,”

https://www.fixyourmarriagebook.com/ is adapting, adjusting, and changing along with your spouse, done in scales. 1 is for divorce. 10 is the optimal marriage. 2 to 3 is when it’s in a danger zone. 7 to 8 is okay but could be better. The different scales initiates communication between spouses to see where they are now and where they’re heading.

It’s not what you want.  It’s what they need and want.

This is Graham’s love language of thoughtfulness and consideration.

Not a gray area of a guessing game.